Comments on: Media, Mothers, and Me http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/ Responses to Media and Culture Fri, 12 Feb 2016 19:35:04 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.7.5 By: Faye Woods http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41296 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 23:41:32 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41296 Great discussion here! I’m also interested in the wife/husband as showrunners, and the rare network female showrunner and how that may play into the representations and complexities of relationships presented in the show.

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By: Kristina Busse http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41225 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 12:20:32 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41225 I believe you, Myles, I really do. But as a 40-something I find that term so repulsive…I’ll continue to pass, I think.

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By: Kristina Busse http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41224 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 12:19:09 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41224 Oh, you just explained to me why I couldn’t get into most of the cable shows like Weeds or Hung or…there’s something about Alicia’s behavior that I connect with. Which is odd, because I tend to claim that I like escapism (gimme spaceships and aliens any day), but somehow the escapism of over-the-top responses within a realist setting clashes for me.

And yes, the subtleness and the meaning of every gesture makes this a really interesting viewing experience.

Great point about extreme responses as the trope of many shows. I was thinking more of the emotional extremism of prime time soaps but yes, these literally extreme reactions are even more fitting.

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By: Kristina Busse http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41223 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 12:14:11 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41223 But isn’t that the perfect sex background? Forget Bolero! This gets the smart politicians/lawyers hot 😀

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By: Kristina Busse http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41222 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 12:12:48 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41222 Oh, that’s really funny! But the problem remains that you need to watch the show to see the joke…

I tried Terriers. I saw you tweeting and watched the pilot and it just didn’t work for me…it was smart and well done and I wish I’d have been more interested in the characters and the plot.

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By: Myles McNutt http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41177 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 05:51:41 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41177 A great rundown of many of the things that I do enjoy about this series, Kristina.

One thing I find interesting is your note about the lack of extremism in Alicia’s actions: she doesn’t get a divorce, she doesn’t make a substantial life change, etc. And yet if you look at similar series with female leads, thinking here of Weeds or The Big C, it’s all about extremism: in the wake of death or a cancer diagnosis, they start dealing drugs or letting their life fall out from under them.

I think some people problematize the series’ procedural structure, and the lack of “real” serialization, but I think the show would be far less interesting if you moved it to pay cable and Alicia became truly unhinged. Her level-headed approach to this situation offers a comfortably baseline still capable of drawing real drama, and those moments when the bubble bursts (see: aforementioned bathroom scene) are that much more powerful within this context.

It defines the character, and it defines the show, CBS’ reputation be damned.

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By: Myles McNutt http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41174 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 05:45:11 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41174 As Jason alludes to, Cougar Town really is a far cry from its title – while early episodes play with the notion that sold ABC on the show (40-something woman dates 20-something men), that is quickly abandoned in favor of a (heartwarming, charming, hilarious) show about community as family.

Honest!

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By: Jason Mittell http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41164 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 03:48:17 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41164 Cougar Town is surprisingly good, and the producers mea culpa about their title each week in the credits. The other major title flap right now is Terriers, which is a fabulous show that everyone who isn’t watching thinks is about dogs. It’s not. Watch it!

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By: Jason Mittell http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41163 Wed, 10 Nov 2010 03:41:44 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41163 Any discussion of the bathroom scene has to mention the soundtrack – possibly the first televised oral sex scene while listening to NPR! A bouquet of taboo-busting juxtapositions…

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By: Kristina Busse http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/2010/11/08/media-mothers-and-me/comment-page-1/#comment-41144 Tue, 09 Nov 2010 22:53:16 +0000 http://blog.commarts.wisc.edu/?p=7178#comment-41144 Yes! I love the way she is an active partner in her sexuality. The bathroom scene was marvelous but so was the failed romance/returning to her husband scene. I wouldn’t go as far as her using her husband, but she certainly was turned on by someone other than him 🙂

Especially considering that sexuality is at the center of the scandal, I’m enjoying her representation as neither the wife who doesn’t enjoy sex nor the wife who gets off on cheating but a real person confused by her desires and emotions and everything in between…

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